4 Everyday Choices That Make Life Meaningful
A richer life is within your reach when you make a few everyday choices.
1. Be a Creator, Not Just a Consumer
The buffet table of consumption available to us today is staggering. More people than ever are spending hours a day scrolling on their devices. The vast majority of the content on those devices is created by just a few people, with everyone else passively consuming. While it might be fun to scroll, scrolling is not your life’s purpose—you are made for more than that. Life’s greatest meaning-makers all require creating: start a family, grow a company, make art, serve others. The choice is counter-culture, and it starts with putting down your phone.
2. Trust Your Values, Not Your Feelings
The last few generations seem more guided by their feelings than ever. Compared to the past, when concepts of duty, responsibility, and honor pushed us to act against how we felt, today we’re more focused on the here and now. Not everything about that old order was better, but in some ways we’ve become slaves to our emotions, unable to do anything unless we feel like it—and let’s be honest, we rarely feel like doing hard things. Every time you choose to put aside your feelings to live in accordance with a deeply held value, you are making your life richer with meaning, and the world a better place.
3. Treat Ordinary Work With Extraordinary Care
Almost anything we do can be infused with greater meaning simply by choosing to care more. The smallest deeds and the tiniest acts are powerful when the intent behind them is to do them well. While there is some up-front friction to doing good work that keeps it from being “natural,” the satisfaction you get from really trying is greater than nearly anything else life has on offer besides relationships. The best part is, you can try it for yourself. By trying harder, you care more, and the more you care, the more you develop affection for the work itself. It’s an upward spiral of emotions that anyone can experience for themselves in relatively short order.
4. Make the Call and Schedule a Date
The greatest artwork our civilization has ever created, from books to paintings and music to movies, all testify to the centrality of relationships in the human experience. Put simply, relationships are what bring life meaning. Your relationships with your family, friends, neighbors, and creator have long been the pillars of a meaningful life. We all want these things, but compared to the conveniences and comforts of our entertainment, they require effort to maintain. I’m here to say, the juice is worth the squeeze. A meaningful life helps you to understand why you’re here and what you’re doing, and it all starts with staying connected with those you love. Go ahead and call that friend you’ve been meaning to catch up with.
Meaning vs. Money
The funny thing about our modern culture is how much we’ve elevated financial wealth as the greatest measure of success. The one thing money has going for it is how easy it is to measure, but besides that, it has many shortfalls.














